I've read up on different schools of game, tried many out, kept a journal of my interactions, reviewed what I did right and what I could improve on, and generally conquered every woman-related fear that I could identify.My philosophy on game, and life in general, could pretty much be summed up as follows: "If you're afraid of it, all the more reason to go and DO it." I feel that whatever's blocking me from getting laid, inevitably has to do with fear - and so if I keep noticing fears and promptly taking the courage to overcome them, then eventually all of that fear-conquering will lead to improvement in my life.The way he describes the utter hopelessness he feels, and the jealousy, it was like hearing my own story told back to me. I'm concerned that whatever the "issue" is with my game, is going to follow me wherever I go. I'm sure there's a pattern in there, which one of you experts can pick out, and be like "I found your problem! My story is both inspiring and heartbreaking, hopeful and hopeless, enraging and highly comical, all at the same time. There were no major financial or familial disruptions, no poverty, war, disease, or sudden loss.The only difference between me and him is that I always believed in the possibility of success, and I went out and took the active steps necessary to achieve it. It will elicit mad props in one sentence, pity in the next, and raucous laughter not far behind. I’m pretty sure that some of my parents’ behavior bordered on abusive, but that can be said of almost everyone in this society. Funny thing is, during my time in Chicago, I encountered the most number of PUAs in one spot than I ever have before!Here are the two of the more memorable ones --Some dude made eye contact with my cousin from afar and immediately made his way over to us.
The 3 Second Rule is one of the most important and game changing rules in PU.
I first found the red pill, in the form of David D, at the age of 17, and I'm 28 now.
For that entire time, I've been doing everything I'm supposed to do: I've done astronomical amounts of approaches, on a consistent basis, in all sorts of settings both daytime and nighttime.
It's quick, it's effective, and most guys will feel the adrenaline regardless of whether their target responds warmly. So the dude came over, but instead of introducing himself to my cousin, he proceeds to shake MY hand first, followed by our other friend, then lastly, as if trying to make her feel like an afterthought, shrugs and says hi to my cousin!
He just totally ruined his approach with a shitty attempt at a neg.